Yankee! I was thinking of you the other day when I was at the mall and passed by the Yankee Candle shop grin

I like your outlook. Focus on yourself before you can focus on your relationship! I've been in my sitch for 8mos and it wasn't until last month I started to focus on myself.

How could I have ignored myself?? That's how we don't show love to ourselves!

We are all prairie dogs. Hiding underground, hoping to come out to the light. We've been struck by a HUGE bomb so it's in our nature to take cover and only come out when it's safe.

Also, win win on the interactions with H. Respond to his texts and emails but don't initiate til you're ready.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017