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Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb sandi2 #2236186 04/07/12 04:56 PM
Joined: Mar 2012 Posts: 41 O ouroboros OP Member
OP ouroboros Member O Joined: Mar 2012 Posts: 41	Originally Posted By: sandi2 Because in spite of what she does or how she feels toward you and the M, she doesn't want her children to think she's bad. I think that's part of it. I also think she doesn't want to be the bad guy in all this. It's avoiding shame. And avoiding her own loss of self-respect, I think. In W's words during C, I can "fall back on the excuse of depression". But I think she doesn't have an excuse, if you follow my meaning. (formerly crushd) Married 14 yrs M41/W43/D7/S4 M: MLC, major depression/W: WAW Bomb 2/26/12, 2 days before anniversary Detachment, Grown Apart, "I love you like the father of my children", EA/PA?

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Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/21/12 03:50 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	Cadet	03/22/12 11:12 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	sayitaintso	03/22/12 12:54 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	Cadet	03/24/12 12:50 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/26/12 07:44 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	NvrSayNvr	03/26/12 11:40 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	NvrSayNvr	03/26/12 11:50 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	Dory	03/24/12 04:02 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/26/12 07:51 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	sandi2	03/24/12 08:19 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/26/12 08:08 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	Accuray	03/26/12 08:28 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/28/12 04:35 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	MrBond	03/30/12 03:06 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/30/12 05:53 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	sandi2	03/26/12 10:33 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/28/12 04:55 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/29/12 04:09 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/29/12 03:49 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	sandi2	03/30/12 12:04 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/30/12 01:59 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	03/30/12 06:34 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/02/12 10:26 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	sandi2	04/06/12 04:12 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	Redo	04/06/12 07:27 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/07/12 04:34 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	Redo	04/09/12 04:58 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/12/12 11:56 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/07/12 04:56 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	sandi2	04/06/12 07:55 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/07/12 04:36 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	~ kd ~	04/06/12 08:03 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/07/12 11:59 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	sandi2	04/07/12 02:30 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/07/12 04:53 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/10/12 05:04 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/10/12 05:07 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/11/12 01:54 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	AprilT	04/11/12 01:58 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/11/12 01:05 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/12/12 02:29 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	breakdownbill	04/12/12 02:56 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/12/12 11:47 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/14/12 06:47 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	breakdownbill	04/14/12 08:11 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/14/12 10:47 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	breakdownbill	04/14/12 11:23 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/15/12 02:28 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	breakdownbill	04/15/12 02:59 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/17/12 04:03 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	breakdownbill	04/17/12 12:29 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/18/12 02:02 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	HollyAnn	04/15/12 04:51 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	HollyAnn	04/15/12 04:58 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/17/12 04:29 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/17/12 01:53 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/18/12 02:12 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	Redo	04/18/12 07:32 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/18/12 11:47 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	breakdownbill	04/19/12 08:50 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/19/12 11:51 AM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	MrBond	04/19/12 05:32 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	breakdownbill	04/19/12 05:58 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/20/12 12:57 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	breakdownbill	04/20/12 01:16 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/21/12 12:15 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/21/12 02:37 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/23/12 08:03 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	ouroboros	04/27/12 01:43 PM
Re: Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb	AprilT	04/27/12 01:47 PM

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