Brooklyn Babe

[BklynMom]

I wont go so far as to say I dont care if we get back together or not. I have two babies that want a Mommy & Daddy that live with them and love each other. So I do care, I do want my H to return to our life. But I am done trying to convince him to choose us. It pretty obvious to anyone that he is giving up a sweet package but I am not going to try to get him to see that any more. He is a fool or a crazyman.

So my H this morning handing off the girls and he mentions the woman I am friends with that didnt know we are broken up. Since my H will never say what he is really thinking, the mere mention of her shows me that my instinst was correct. That H was angry that I hadnt told her.

2tp - I totally agree - its none of his business who I discuss this with.

Our exchange was fine. We went for a coffee together with the girls. No anger and no chemistry.

I am really going to enforce some boundaries and have H see the girls every other weekend. Not just come over whenever convinent. This way I can plan my life a little more.

My job ended yesterday, so I am excited to get back to my home life with the girls. I will definitely have more time now for hobbies and GALing cause working full time (and lots of ,OT) plus being a single mom aint easy people.