Thanks HIW, BF & Ad! I promise to respond better when I'm not so furious.

Having a rough day already. H showed up over an hour late (40 minutes late in his mind) to pick up the kids. H mentioned to me how he was going to pick up some small Easter baskets for the kids. (I said fine, just remember some of our kids still believe in the Easter Bunny and don't overdo.) Well you should see these baskets - they're huge, filled with candy, toys & money. AAAAAAH!! Now he's talking about how he'll be back with the kids in about 3 hours. He will have spent total 5 hours with his kids this week!!! (And seemed incredulous when I called him on it!) What an arse! Someone please remind me why I ever married such a JERK and what the heck I'm doing trying to revive any kind of relationship with him!!


Me: 42 H: 44
M: 17 1/2 T: 19 1/2
S: 14
D: 10
D: 8
Dog: 16-17 (very old & H's responsibility, live w/ me)
1st Bomb (I need space): 2/3/12
2nd Bomb (ILYBNILWY): 2/11/12
Moved out: 2/12/12