I know I know. I AM FRUSTRATED. One of my greatest supporters told me he thinks she has her mind made up. Thats really bothering me. So yes Im venting. Better here then to her,but she wouldnt listen anyway. Yes I need to quit having expectations. Im giving her her space. Ive went to great lengths to give her that space, and I need to be so patient. Im just sick of the pain and the not knowing whats going on. I agree with you guys wholeheartedly!