You give a woman that kind of salary shes not going to put up with any BS from her H. Easier to walk away then to work on things.
nd - I've read a little bit about your sitch, and just want to say sorry that you find yourself here with the rest of us. But if you do the work, you'll come out a better person no matter the outcome of your M.
Now, to get to your statement above. It almost sent my blood pressure through the roof, so I want to understand what you really mean. Do you actually have the idea in your head that because a woman makes a decent living, it's easier to be a WAW? I'm asking because I make more than my H and I'm the LBS. I'm trying to understand your train of thought. Because it sounds like you expected your wife to stay and "put up with BS" when she didn't make that much.
And that is too chauvinistic for me to even comprehend.