I agree, starsky. That's where I am at, right now in my sitch.
I am done and I am very happy with my decision to move on.
BUT...
If my W said to me she wanted to try... now... FINALLY...
"Hey honey... go to town... Convince me that the M could be different. Go to MC if you want. Invite me if you want after a few sessions. I'm willing to see if those feelings come back, but I promise nothing."
I seen Autumn coming from a different place.
I still see pain and anger in her decision...
But I could be completely wrong and off base, there...