What does success look like? I see some little glimpses of 180s working. I'm not trying to hurry, I know this is a long road.
But what does it look like? After years of patterns of passive aggression and avoiding conflict, what does it look like to begin to reconcile?
When it happens, how does it happen? How does it begin?
(formerly crushd) Married 14 yrs M41/W43/D7/S4 M: MLC, major depression/W: WAW Bomb 2/26/12, 2 days before anniversary Detachment, Grown Apart, "I love you like the father of my children", EA/PA?