I want to believe that what I do think of him is important to him, but I am curious as to why.
I don't know for sure, but I have been ruminating on your sitch's latest, and from what I remember of divorcing with my 1st...I was done, and did not care, AT ALL, what she thought of me...though we were friends for a while after the D (no kids), I just went on with growing into a different me with a different love...so, not saying this is H, but, I have read where once the D is in process or done, some pressure or something is taken away and they can see more clearly...
What I can say is, if H were me, it could mean that he ain't sure he's done yet...but H is not me, so, grains (handfuls) of salt and all that...
Kaffe...
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Now, we actually understand the consequences...
But life gets busy... and sometimes we forget... or sometimes we don't have the energy... and look what happens...
When life gets in the way... what are we going to do differently, now...?
Since this is the second time into her tunnel for me, I DO PRAY that I have learned to NOT let my changes slide anymore...and to notice all, watch all, and never stop being aware...there is a new priority system (SOP -Revised- OpSit Priority AZ/J - code Feral Cat). While continuously growing and being a better T^2 for me, and everyone else.
oh, btw, as a backpacker, who has set up many tents in the dark and rain...yes, the tents DO REJECT me if the situation is less than optimal...there must be tent parts strewn across half the Rockies and BC that used to belong to me...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
