But I will be perfectly honest here and say that I am reading the posts of a walk away spouse, right now...
too little, too late... i deserve better... i love him, but I'm not IN love with him... actually, i don't know that I even love him... he never paid attention... he's just using a tactic, playing some game, to win me back... we'll be right back where we were...
I would not suggest you go to MC WITH him... if he wants to go... if he wants to fix the M... then let him do the work, in the same way that you were planning to let him do the work to get D...
Why are you deciding that YOU want to do the work for the D... HE is the one that left YOU... let HIM do the work, one way or the other...