Here it is:

After kissing me, my W (who had been very forward the entire evening) said something that really bothered me: "I don't know... you're so attractive and I love being with you, but I just don't feel "it" right now."

She is not ready! She does not desire you. She may be seeing if she can still affect you, or manipulate you, but she doesn't want you sexually.

You already have your brain wheels spinning about getting the M back on track again, and you know what? In less than three weeks, she'll be out of the house again. She's not ready. You're way to easy for her to have whenever she wants you.

She's doing the same as she's always done.....which is calling the shots!


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!