Husband left me...feel hopeless

[wishing, hoping]

My H was the same way during our talks. Cold and business like until I asked him why he hated me so much then the ice man melted and he started tearing up. He said he cared more for me than I would ever know and didn't want me to ever hate him. H is a mess. An absolute emotional mess. He needs help but won't get it. God help them when they all come to their senses.