These WAH's are really a piece of work. Mine is complaining about how much money I have spent since he left. I don't know what he's talking about since I didn't leave the house the entire month of February due to bomb drop. March I bought the kids new shoes, a couple of pairs of pants (3) for me (since I'm on the LBS diet now) and groceries. Meanwhile his new apartment costs the same as my mortgage payment, he's buying all kinds of new furniture, tv's, blueray players, couches, etc, etc, etc, Oh, did I mention the gifts and cash he gives my kids each time he sees them? UGH!!
I'm glad your H decided to make an effort with you and the kids - that really is huge! Hoping the your 180's & DB efforts are really having an effect on him!
One last tidbit, I'm taking my kids to the movies tonight. D10 wants H to go, I told her she could feel free to invite him, but that he'd probably be busy. I didn't tell her no, but I did put it back in her hands & made her ask H. I try not to care if he comes with us or not, but I do know it's important for my kids, so that's where my struggle lies. I bet that's where we all struggle though.
Sending you loads of HUGS and better times ahead!! xo
Me: 42 H: 44 M: 17 1/2 T: 19 1/2 S: 14 D: 10 D: 8 Dog: 16-17 (very old & H's responsibility, live w/ me) 1st Bomb (I need space): 2/3/12 2nd Bomb (ILYBNILWY): 2/11/12 Moved out: 2/12/12
