Queen- Thanks for the insight. He actually did say that my messiness makes him feel taken for granted. I didn't understand that. I am definitely a work in progress and I am inspired by everyone on this board who is turning a "crisis" into a chance for self reflection. Thanks for that.
M 37, H 37 M 10, T 12 S 4 D 2 3/14/12 ILYBNILWY 4/2/12 H consults a L, files nothing 4/26/12 H moves to his new place