Wendy, I am keeping your friend in my thoughts and prayers. I do hope that her surgery goes well and she will be up and about in no time.
I'm sure your home looks beautiful. You've been on a cleaning spree for a few days and there can't be much left to move and/or pick up.
Please let us know how your friend is doing.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.