My wife and I are still separated. And still living together. Nothing much has changed on the surface, but I've been doing well. Hanging with son more, becoming more involved in church, and spending time/fellowship with my family and close friends.
She has still been partying every Friday-Saturday, and has still been leaving the house after getting off work twice during the week. She still only have the same two friends that she mostly talks to daily. She still seem to ignore our son more than I think she should.(i.e. When she gets home after work and he is still up, she is on the phone when she walks in and continues that conversation over an hour at times, while on facebook on the computer. He leaves me to go to her, only to get ignored.) Also she has started picking up extra shifts in the day twice a week to make extra money, while leaving our son at her mothers. 49 or so days and counting and still not ONE dish washed by her! Although there aren't many, but still I end up washing the few she leaves. And I am still the only one that cleans up, after her and our son, in bathroom and common areas. I have mentioned already to her that she needs to clean after herself to no avail.
Although I don't mind taking the 10mins total to clean, how can I politely mention yet again the following:
That she needs to clean up more???
That our son is being affected by her ignoring him?
That leaving him late at night is probably not a great idea?
Or should I not mention any of the above?
Should I start to not be around, at night, as to not enable her leaving him?
