Thanks for all the advice especially concerning researching her illness. In response to your opinion concerning me enabling her. I'm still not understanding what you are trying to say. How can I set boundaries when she is in complete rebellion mode? Yes I will continue to do dishes everytime until she decides to help or even if she doesn't. Btw, there is no cooking, cleaning, etc, or anything that we do together anymore. As I mentioned before, I work from 8-5pm, daily. She works from 5pm-10pm every evening. We hardly even see each other let alone doing anything. She hardly ever cooks anymore anyway even for herself, just fast food. How can I admit to not carrying an equal load and strive to do better? Remember, she doesn't want to be with me anymore. Another part of that 180 would be to admit that in the past you did not help carry the load on household chores but now you are working towards carrying an equal load. I understand the 180s but with our scare time together the only options I have are to clean the house(which I didn't do a lot before) and taking care of myself even more.
(Doing it all breaks rule 4, 8.) I never do this. Pointing out that you are doing it all breaks rule 34.) Or this..
(Learn more about boundaries.) Well I'm here to do that. Lol.
