Yes, he was. His secret life was related to internet sex activities as well. She filed for divorce, and wants one because he can't see why it's a problem. She is getting on with her life, raising her 3 kids and he is out living it up.
M 37, H 37 M 10, T 12 S 4 D 2 3/14/12 ILYBNILWY 4/2/12 H consults a L, files nothing 4/26/12 H moves to his new place