Stupid question but one that has come up and left me dumb founded:
1) W doesn't know if her feelings will ever change, what do you do when she brings it up? Listen, ignore what?
A: "Considering what our marriage was like in the past, I can certainly understand you feeling that way. All I can tell you is that I LIKE the self-improvements that I'm making, and they make ME FEEL GOOD. I fully intend to keep at this, regardless of what happens with our marriage, as I'm going to need a "new Sad" in ANY future relationship, cuz the old Sad wasn't working for me."
