Thanks Starsky!! It felt natural and easy, which is nice.
So I just got an email from H explaining a change to his paycheck (withholding change he made) and copy of his paystub which will be great for my L
I asked him if he prefers I use the debit or credit for my car today. His response was "can we talk about finances in general soon, where we are at etc, maybe take a walk to do away from the kids"
Clearly he is talking about finances together which means he doesn't get it or doesn't want to get it.
I need to figure out the best way to say I really need for him to move out and that is the discussion we need to have, and whatever financial discussion comes from that.
I hope we can be adult and pleasant but I have my doubts as he keeps "forgetting" that I have already asked him to move out before.
My father suggested some luggage on the porch
I will do some thinking today to figure the best way to approach, but for now I am not responding to his email (busy with work if he asks)
