I have just read your thread. I hope everything turns out for the best for you. I am relatively new to this, but what has helped me detach (though I have not detached emotionally yet) is to GAL. I am attending activities that make me happy, such as learning italian, resuming my gym routine, go out with friends. I am in the process of starting wind surfing lessons and I plan on taking photography courses after summer. I also take long walks at the beach. Generally, I do whatever makes me happy. All these activities will help you keep busy. You will soon start feeling stronger. You will re-discover yourself and realise that no matter what, YOU WILL MAKE IT!
Also, please please read DB or DR books. I have read them both. They are very encouraging. I prefer DR book, but this is just my opinion. I have them on my bedside table and read them whenever I feel down.
Well, that's it for now, good luck with your sitch. Have a nice weekend!
Me: BW 30 Him: WH 31 T 12 years, M 3.5 No kids OW 27 single ex co-worker
Bomb: 13/07/2011 S: 13/07/2011 - 16/09/2011 H came Home 16/09/2011 Dday: 01/10/2011 H left again 23/11/2011
