We started marriage counseling & now he wants out

[wishing, hoping]

Not to hijack your thread but my H said those horrible things to me as well and read off a laundry list of everything I have ever said or did wrong in our 14 years together. Some of the facts were wrong and some things were out and out lies but whenever I would correct him he would tell me I was wrong or else he would change the subject. I felt like dog doo for a month until I found this site and realized it was all script and that it truly was his problem, not mine. Of course I did things wrong in the marriage but according to his made up history of us I never did anything right.

Now I know there is OP. He will not admit it but thats okay. I actually feel somewhat sorry for her because she is more than likely an innocent person who he has lied to as well. She probably feels sorry for him for being married to such a horrible person who does not appreciate such a wonderful man. Please. He was a wonderful man before the aliens nabbed him.

And the link to MLC for Dummies is hilarious. When I got to Chapter 11 about the art of clinging to the edge of the bed I spit out my drink!!! It's like H studied this for months before the bomb.