Just Keep Swimming

[finding nemo]

BF your post about the raccoon had me spit my water out! lol

Yup, I'm a fixer. After reading so many posts, is there a woman on these boards who isn't a fixer? I wonder if there is a fix for that? lol

Our finances are a bit murky right now. I'm willing to give a little on them at this point since H is so very controlling, esp about money. I realize that I've probably got to make some legal moves soon, I just worry what that will mean for my DB efforts. Also, my L has a pretty good picture of what's going on financially with us, so I'm trying not to borrow tomorrow's problems today. Also, H seemed to ease up a bit yesterday. Don't know if he's being kinder because he sees what he's missing, or (more likely) he wants something from me. I can wait it out a couple more days to find out. Hoping I'm more patient then H is.

This is still so new for my kids. None of them want to talk to him about anything for real. Plus, he's not really spending a large amount of time with them for the kids to feel like they can open up to H. Really hoping this changes soon, for all their benefits.

Thanks for your post. It helps so much to know that I'm not alone in this awful situation!