At the 4 week mark, something happened to me. It was really quite astonishing. I started to feel the Hurt Wife disappear, and the Angry (and more in control) Mommy take over. The Hurt Wife comes out every once in awhile, but Mommy is mostly in control now. And the kids know it. We're all doing much better now. I'm trying to set a schedule for everything so that the children all know what's going on. I'm trying to be very consistent. And I have to admit, the house seems a lot more at peace since H isn't living here. (It was a gradual transition.)
Looking forward to spending a fun day coloring eggs tomorrow and trying something new for me! Thanks!!
Me: 42 H: 44 M: 17 1/2 T: 19 1/2 S: 14 D: 10 D: 8 Dog: 16-17 (very old & H's responsibility, live w/ me) 1st Bomb (I need space): 2/3/12 2nd Bomb (ILYBNILWY): 2/11/12 Moved out: 2/12/12