Thank you both so much. I am still learning the website and where to post. Hes been taking the kids there every day. She wears his coat around our work ALL the time. The coat I bought him THIS year for x/mas. But I am not showing him that I care. When I speak to him I keep it short. Make him contact me. He has sent me a few odd/random IM's at work this week. I am short when I respond and keep it simple. I have been looking great at work everytime we all see eachother and as much has I want to confront him I have kept my mouth shut and let him take the kids. What choice do I have really? I just have to trust tht he is a good father and go from there. It has not been easy. But the other way just pushed him away.
