Hello folks, All good comments. Thanks for taking the time to respond. Yes, living in limbo for me is not a good place to be, I find myself wanting closure. Getting a d for me is bittersweet, in that I am glad we are both able to work this out without even having to use a mediator(we did consult one), because of all the horror stories I have heard about protracted battles with lawyers.
On the other hand, it is sad to think that a 12 year m can be ended in 8 weeks for 650 dollars, wham, bam, thank you maam. Guess its a case of having my cake and eating it too, but I would like to think our marriage meant more than just a legal form.
Oh well, off to the mountains for the holiday, hope everyone has a safe and happy holiday!
m 54 XW 48 m 12 t 14 bomb 6-11 s 10-11 wife moved to other state 10-21-11 d 9-12
O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!
