So H calls me at work and is sooooo nice I know he is up to something. He asks when I am leaving for my trip to IN and asks if I need anything and if I will be set? I thank him but let him know I am prepared for my trip and don't need anything from him. I then tell him (for the fifth time) that I am leaving after work after I board the dog and pick up the kids. Oh...he says. I thought you were leaving in the morning? I made plans to go up north and help someone with a tile project because I thought you were leaving in the morning.
So long story short he will not see his daughter for 4 days and his son for 10 days so he can go "up north" and lay tile. Nice. And this is the dedicated dad who says he can split the kids 50/50. Right. He can't even see them for a weekend. Treat me as he will but I don't like what he is doing to the kids. I can't even be angry with the OW because more than likely he has fed her a line of bull a mile long.
Anyway since our discussion earlier he has called me four times asking me to call him back. I will not. I have no control over his choices but I have control over mine. I will not ease his guilt.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
