lol... yeah... not too sure about that sexting thing... might be a little too new skool...
I get the whole chicken poo thing... I'm all brave talk here, saying I'm OK with filing, yet I hide behind when I'm a little more finacially ready and if there was a romantic interest for me...
That sure sounds WAS familiar...
But emotionally, I really am ready for that game. I'm ready for my W to bring the topic up. 'cause I've asked for D and she declined, opting for a SA that she said she'd never do... and recently, she asks if I'm ready to have the D talk and I say, "sure..." and she doesn't bring it up, again...
I just really do want / need to be a little more financially secure, 'cause I'm sure court will issue child support for her.
But let me ask you... why wait? I read what you posted above... But I don't really see a reason to wait... Except to concede to his time frame...
But that doesn't mean you can't get the paper work done, ready to file...
Or is that what you mean? Tell him you want D, start working on the paper work and then set D filing date based on his time?
'cause maybe he'd be OK with filing within the next couple months...
and you can be done with this and moving on by mid summer...
