I hope DIM finds herself on the same path soon. The anger and resistance is exhausting. The trauma is there. The holding on to what could have been; I identify so much with it and feel so much compassion. But when you see it as a gift to change to something so much more of who you are, and you can access those new places, it is a HUGE blessing - the key is that sometimes some of us need to exhaust ourselves and hit rock bottom before we can start getting it (ahem, not mentioning any names! :)) (and I do mean me)
