"Do I be considerate of her or do I chose myself?"
(((Val))) You always chose you 1st during something like this. You continue to struggle in dealing with her. Be yourself and tell her W I can file separetly. And if calling is stressful email her the info.
Ps do you owe this year?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”