"Do I be considerate of her or do I chose myself?"

(((Val))) You always chose you 1st during something like this. You continue to struggle in dealing with her. Be yourself and tell her W I can file separetly. And if calling is stressful email her the info.

Ps do you owe this year?


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden