What do you hope to achieve by asking about this? Even if you are only truly asking it could quite likely be perceived as confronting. Confrontation is an escalation.
Your W will very likely hear about it. Small town right? How will she perceive it? I suspect negatively.
IMO better to allow the dust to settle. Focus upon you. What are you doing to improve your lot?
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill