I am new here, and in desperate need of advise on how to detach and do the 180. Short insight on the problem--married almost 25 years. Last 9--maybe more, there have been numerous affairs, lies, false attempts at R, you name it. Currently H is in another state working, and has moved all his things out. H wants D--I cannot seem to him or the idea of our marriage go. I still believe we can make it--NOT without help and serious counseling. Someone please help me.
