1 thing missing.....happiness. H is not fun to be around, he's not fun to talk to, he's not even fun to go to the movies with (you know that guy who ignores the cell phone off rule and commenting during a movie??... that's H).
But of the 6, the one that is missing is certainty/comfort... duh, he has ADD. I can't be certain of anything, even things he says he'll do and promises.
My LL is acts of kindness, his is gifts with words of affirmation a close second. We couldn't be more opposite.
Oh, and one other thing I did differently in the past 3 months, I lied about liking the flowers I got for Valentines day. I hate flowers, always have (we've been married 21 years, we didn't even have flower arrangements at the wedding, and we all carried only single roses).
Yes, I said I liked the flowers, and yes I lied. So that's 2 things I did differently!!