waiting for the other shoe

[labug]

Have you read Divorce Busting or Divorce Remedy?

Yes, this is very painful. It seems you know the things you have to change to be a better you. Do you see that you didn't show her a lot of love and affection for a very long time? You changed for a while and then went back to your old ways. The changes you make have to be for you, not just to get her back.

If you haven't read the books, do. The first chapter of DR is here: http://www.divorcebusting.com/sb_the_divorce_remedy.htm http://www.divorcebusting.com/sb_the_divorce_remedy.htm

My story is similar to yours only I was the angry, resentful partner.