Yes, 25yearsmlc, it is a big problem. And yes we're happy otherwise. Yes, it needs work, but not sure what to do at this point, as virtually anything is a repeat. Not that I don't do it, like going on nice vacations and bringing flowers and complimenting her, etc. Things I would do regardless. But it's not resulting in sex, ever. That's all I'm saying.
The only thing I would reject at this point is drama like moving out and back in to make a point, etc.
And I don't need permission from anybody to have an affair if that's what I want to do.
