Originally Posted By: greenblue90
Yet I think that it happens enough that any husband in an ssm should be asking themselves, is it that she doesn't want sex, or is it me?


Well, that just invites the same question in reverse: It happens enough with a husband in an SSM that he goes out and easily seduces another woman. So the problem is with his wife, not him, right?

It's often not that simple.

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Because after all the only thing you can fix is yourself.


Or you can replace your wife. ;-)