Tad, you are still trying to figure out her mind. Not possible. She is in MLC Crazyland. If I had to guess, it is that she wants to be sure you are right where she left you.
I suppose you are right.
As for being her friend, why would I want to be friends with someone that has done so wrong and been so mean to me? Some of the things that she has told me:
"I don't love you any more than the dogs."
"You are more like a roommate."
"You're a miserable excuse for a man and a horrible father."
"You're a loser."
"I wish we never married."
But I guess the bigger question would be: If I AM so terrible, why would she even want to be friends with ME?
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13