1 week ago W called and asked if I got her complaint for D signed and mailed to her laywer yet, she also asked if I was getting my own lawyer or are we doing a stipulated divorce.
At that point I informed her that 50/50 cutody is possible in the state and that it is up to her actions as to how ugly the D was going to get. I stated bottom line I want 50/50 custody and will fight for it. She seemed shocked. I heard from mutual friends that later that night she left work (on her last day mind you)because she had a "nervous breakdown" claiming that she was scared for D1's safety. (D1 was with me the whole night and we were asleep by 8 pm.
Now 5 days later, she started texting and calling like crazy all nice and like her old self. Apparently she dumped the OM and is planning to move elsewhere in town. She also changed her phone number and has been asking "who is it?" at the door buzzer, which she has never done before. Something bad must have went down.
In other news, D1 just had her adnoids removed and ear tubes replaced. Both W and I have worked great with teamwork on this. The night before the surgery W recinded her request to be at D1's surgery alone, which as hard as that would have been for me to do, I would have complied because I would have taken care of D1 the rest of the day.
As for me, I have started my new job and got my own place. I like it. I am still settling in, but am adjusting fast!
As for W's apparent change, I am very wary, but receptive with no expectations. I am keeping my nose to the grindstone and have lightened up on the dark situation due to D1's recent medical problems.
Stay tuned as the world turns...
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12
