Autumn , Kaffe you also need to work this out for the remainder of the year/ number of years before the children can decide. And you should work it out before hand. As there will always be a next time / can we alter it.... I forgot .... I changed my mind.
There will even be times you think/know they "dumped" the kids on you out of an inconvenience.
S17 has a bit of year left. Then its his choice. Not either of yours. But it needs to be worked out for S15.
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