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[gunny]

Hello Tonibertha,
Even though I initially did not want the d, the fact that she has moved to another state has pretty much made the point moot. If she filed in her state, I would have to appear, which in the totality of things (me being left behind to deal with taxes, moving issues, landlord issues, selling of vacation cabin, the emotional baggage of being the lbs, etc etc,)has made we realize that the easiest thing to do to expedite thingss the process is for me to file in my state and end the process relatively quickly. It is clear to me that is what she wants, i could fight it, but to what end?

As they say, sometimes discretion is the better part of valor.
Thanks for asking, I will have to read up on your situation, have a good day!