She has a point Alamo. I personally wouldn't do anything even remotely questionable before the D is finalized.
Your W has already demonstrated that she is prepared to bring the lumber in the email that she sent you. No need to give her anymore ammo.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa