Separation Helped So Far..

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Well, looks like they won't move in together after all, but only because dogs are not allowed at that house and that ow's friend has a dog.
H ended up calling me yesterday asking if he could watch the end of the game here, I said no.. Then called again this morning asking if I'll be home. I said I won't be, then he called again just now asking if I'm really not home because he wants to come over and cook something (he is staying w a friend for a month, they have a separate entrance basement where they said he could stay till he finds a place to live, there is no cable down there nor a kitchen so now he's using these as excuses to be around) he came over the other day, for I forgot what purpose, oh he had something mailed here and picked it up, hung around for like 2 hours.. I was ok with the first hour just because dr Phil was on so I watched that.. (even he paid attention tho he doesn't like the show) and just sat around, fooled around on the computer. I'm now still studying for my final exam which I failed a few weeks ago so having him killing time here is not something I prefer. So after dr Phil I saw he wasn't gettig ready to leave so I asked him to make himself useful and walk the dog. He did. He left shortly after, but regardless I found he was here for too long. And now when he wanted to come over to cook I said no, and I said I don't want him here day after day cooking and hanging around. He said it was just temporary and I said he can temporarily hang and cook at ow's house.. He hang up on me. Maybe I shouldnt keep saying to go to her, but it's just on my mind when he wants to be with me, I can't help it..