being in crisis does not diminish the completly misguided and inappropriateness of the post
we have all been in crisis
pointing out the misguidedness is important because we simply can not use our situations for carte blanche behavior
words are powerful tools and every word in every situation carries weight
when you dismiss that because of pain and hurting, you also dismiss what you say when you aren't in pain and hurting
May is an intelligent person and you are correct, she seems to be giving an undo amount of power away
reality checks are extremely important always but especially in crisis situations
sending an email to the suspected OW makes you look like a crazy person... because, in that moment, you are...
you need to stop and recognize that before you make your situation worse...before you BECOME the crazy person you are acting like
Compassion I have in loads, understanding is there too
and
but again
recognition is vital to growth and moving forward
but slamming special needs children and wishing miscarriages and stillbirths is NOT an acceptable way to deal with anything EVER
neither is placing blame for your actions (physical violence is never OK and if it would have been a man pounding on a woman that way, there are very few people here who would have said...oh it's OK and it's understandable...NOR SHOULD THERE BE...IT"S WRONG AND AGAINST THE LAW)
