Her reasoning is the part that makes me want to laugh up a storm. We talked about Couchsurfing the other day; I explained to her the pretty lengthy and detailed verification process for that PARTICULAR site. She reminded me of a case back in her hometown in Texas where a preacher and fellow Bible student became a convicted pedophile. She said that good people can be pedophiles too. I just validated her ("yes, I agree.") and ended the conversation there; in the bigger picture, it just isn't worth to fight over this.

My point being: Maybe I should conduct a background check for each of the new church members that I hang out with; my wife doesn't know many of the new people that joined since she left 1.5 years ago. Our son hangs out with them a lot. Why doesn't she tell me to cease or desist?

From the you-never-know-what's-going-to-happen-who-you're-going-to-meet perspective, maybe I should stop driving our son around too. You never know when something "bad" will happen, correct?

Maybe I should ask my wife to stop my wife from bringing our son to see her parents. After all, they have been deemed by two of our therapists to have invoked emotional incest on her. So by pure face-value judgement of character, they are dangerous people to be around.

And yes, I'm venting again. Been doing that a lot lately. My heart has been in pieces lately from what's coming up soon.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112