autumn, i'm no one to give advice since i'm so new here and surely doing everything wrong but i'm so sorry for your pain. i completely understand it. it would be so much better if our husbands were totally nasty and had evil faces with horns on their heads. but...they don't. they have the face we fell in love with, the laugh we long to hear, the smile that melts our hearts, and worst of all, they still love us, too, just not the right way for us to be happy.
breathe, breathe, breathe.
That's precisely right, Scaredsilly. You put it beautifully . . . and accurately. Seems like pretty GOOD advice to me!
Seems like pretty GOOD advice to me! 
