punkin, I'm glad you spoke up. I would fight this battle until xh's debts were his solely. Why should you have to pick up the tab for his debts after all of this time?
I think it's funny that everyone involved, i.e., lawyer, judge and your BFF all came to the said place for lunch.
Happy Easter! Maybe you will find the golden egg under a shrub!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
