Thanks to both of you! I just have to try to get through this day the best I can.

A friend of mine who does not know what is going on, posted something on FB this morning. It was regarding her own divorce years ago, and it said "Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you or makes you happy"

Just got a text from H saying he is leaving work early and taking the boys golfing this afternoon. I said "sounds like a good way to spend your birthday, enjoy" and he said "I agree, thanks"

I already knew about it because S17 was still home and mentioned H texted him. He also asked "did dad leave early this morning"

It is time for us to sit them down together and discuss, no more dancing this dance.


-Autumn