GM they are NOT the same people we married. The person you married WOULD be sensitive BUT this is NOT that person. I too was shocked. I can home for lunch, to my h painting our house. He had taken a break and was on the phone with a friend and told him I was home for lunch and he had to go. I made some funny comment about us having two houses now (one rental)and this would be a good time if we wanted to seperate.....(I was totally kidding and had NO IDEAL that he was about to drop the bomb). He said...."I think i would leave you IF I wanted to". I said ok and laughed. We walked upstairs, his phone rang and I questioned why he didnt answer. He started crying and said he wanted a divorce. Talking about being punched in the stomach. I had the life knocked out of me. No seperation.....wanted a divorce. Three months later he made it happen. You are NOT alone here. We have all been thru this and we are here for you. Breathe! Now get it together for you and your kids. He is off in outer space and is sadly only thinking of him. Hang in there, you will be ok I promise!
