While I am sure that you checked the org and were confident about it's "safety"... if you and your W were together, it would have been a joint decision to do it, in regards to its affect on your son...
So it is not much different as a co-parent...
As my W continues to remind me, what she does is HER business... and that's true and fair enough... but... if it could affect the kids... that IS my business and works in both directions...
