Okay guys . . . . . Contacted my attorney yesterday morning and told him the situation was unacceptable. In the first place, I never say this so called "list of debts" he had paid while we were seperated. To my knowledge, the only things left to be paid on were the mtg., 3 credit cards, HIS Travel Trailer and HIS new truck that he bought 3 weeks before he walked out. Attorney said "Unfortunately, the judge has signed this decree . . ." I said "So what? He signed two others giving me $$$/month and then changed his mind before I ever way a dime?" Long and short of it is, I told him I didn't care if I ended up paying him the alimony every month, as long as I wasn't paying for X's debts.
Later -
Went to lunch with co-worker/friend. Small Italian restaurant. In walks my attorney, who sits behind and to my right. In walks my BFF, who was at my side during the court date. In walks THE JUDGE!!, who sits behind me. We were the only 4 occupied tables in that particular section. Coincidence??????